Getting Unstuck So We Can Thrive

After betrayal, many couples reach a stuck place in the process of rebuilding trust and connection. Being stuck can help fortify a relationship if successfully navigated through… the problem is that getting unstuck is hard to figure out.

Long-term idling in the relationship can generate feelings of hopelessness and grief.

What if you could identify the reason your relationship is stuck and move forward with new insights and a stronger bond?

Feeling stuck usually pertains to a problem in one of the following areas:

  1. Trust
  2. Intimacy (emotional or sexual)
  3. Empathy

The Resilient Marriage Couple’s Intensive will help you identify what’s stuck and generate a solution to get the ball rolling again. During your 3-Day Intensive you will take an in-depth look at your own coping strategies and other potential risk factors to building trust, intimacy, and empathy.

Your next step to resiliency

As a couple you will gain tools that help you:

  • experience effective check-ins
  • build empathy and reduce defensiveness
  • talk about the betrayal without shutting down or getting activated
  • isolate incidences of shaming, judgment, and criticism
  • determine where flexing to your partner’s side is necessary
  • become thorough in repair attempts
  • navigate conversation when your partner is triggered

Plus, you will learn a joint protocol to help partners eliminate triggers and you will gain several at-home exercises to build intimacy and trust.




"I just can't thank Dr. Magness and Hope enough for their hard work and dedication to helping my husband and I rebuild our marriage. With everything you helped us work through and the tools you taught us, I know we will have a successful marriage and my husband can stay sober. I can truly never thank either of you enough."

"On our flight home, I told my husband that I believed this might have been the most important, most challenging and most rewarding thing we have ever done in our lives. This intensive dove into the issues that are impossible to get to at home. It also touched on important issues outside of the addiction like communication."

"This was a difficult process that required a lot of trust, truth, heart and guts on both sides. The way Hope got to the difficult answers was extremely effective yet almost seemed painless as we were being led. Looking back it was very painful but it didn't feel that way while in it. She knew when to let me ask, talk, etc. She guided that discussion to ensure I knew the whole truth not just what he wanted me to know. She also knew that I believed my husband to be a very good man but I wasn't able to get to that guy - she helped him find that man."

"If you are looking for some awesome, knowledgeable people to work with, these are the guys I highly recommend. Their friendliness and result-driven approach is what I love about them."

"All I can say is thank you and I have Hope for a great future. Milton Magness should be proud of his program and of Hope - I believe we cut a year off of this process by attending this Intensive. Had we continued with the single therapy sessions alone we would probably not have been together. I know my personal health and career would not have been able to survive the time it was going to take for my husband to prepare this in regular therapy. Time is not always on your side. If you want to save your marriage as part of this process I believe this is the way to do it."

"The disclosure and the Polygraph were the most helpful parts of the intensive as I felt that I finally had the whole truth. The support to me during the intensive helped me feel heard and safe. The availability of the books/videos on site, made it easier to obtain the necessary tools we needed to begin our healing and recovery."